ATTENTION FIRST RESPONDERS, SMALL & BIG BUSINESS, CHURCHES, UNIONS, ORGANIZATIONS, ASSOCIATIONS, SENIOR CENTERS, NURSING HOMES, HOSPICE WORKERS, TRADE CONTRACTORS… LET’S MAKE A DIFFERENCE!
Dear Community Leaders, Educators, and Support Organizations, I want to express my heartfelt concern regarding a crucial topic that often seems over-looked- pre-planning end-of-life arrangements. As someone dedicated to this mission, it’s disheartening to see that my posts on this important subject are not receiving the engagement they deserve, especially from those in our community who are committed to educating and empowering families.
Why is this topic so difficult to share? Why does it feel like a taboo? I believe we all understand that many families in need are struggling with the sudden passing of a loved one, often without having the necessary information at hand. It has come to my attention, time and again, from families connected to groups, organizations, churches that they were never informed about the options of pre-planning. They share their regret that such vital discussions were never brought to the forefront during their loved ones’ health battles.
I implore you to consider the following:
- Importance of Education: We are not Immortal! If you are involved in health care, hospice care, or community support, your role includes guiding families through the toughest moments of their lives. Having conversations about pre-planning is a significant part of that journey.
- Mutual Benefits: This isn’t just about providing families with resources; it’s about building a supportive community where everyone can feel prepared, by fostering awareness around pre-planning, you are also taking proactive steps to protect your own families from future hardships.
What I believe is essential is addressing the family’s final resting place for their loved ones. This is not a decision that should be left to strangers at a funeral home. It is personal and should be thoroughly considered long before a funeral service. No one knows your loved one’s wishes as well as you do and remember that you won’t just visit the funeral home; you will visit your loved one at a cemetery for years to come. That is why this step is paramount and should always be prioritized.
I am eager to understand what might be holding back engagement from community leaders and organizations. What can I offer to make our collaboration more appealing? How can we work together effectively to ensure families receive the assistance they so desperately need?
Over my 20- plus years in this field, I have had the privilege of guiding thousands of groups and organizations- hospitals, hospice services, and community support networks- including those intertwined with our local cemeteries. They have been great advocates of my work, recognizing its value in helping families through every aspect of the end-of-life journey, from A-Z.
I invite you to contact me at any time. I am here as a resource and a partner, eager to collaborate and help elevate our community’s understanding of the importance of pre-planning. Let’s open the lines of communication- together, we can make a difference.
Please consider spreading the word, engaging with my social media posts, or reaching out directly for a conversation about how we can collaborate. Together, we can ensure that families are informed and prepared, alleviating the burdens that often accompany unexpected situations.